I'm back from my trip. More on that later. Had a bit of a crisis last night. Pablo's tank overturned on my way home from picking him up at Mom's. Everything appears to be OK now. But it really freaked me out. It was like a nightmare.
I stopped the car in the middle of the road. Almost all the water had spilled out of the tank. I was hoping Pablo hadn't fallen out, but I didn't see him inside. Then I saw him in the floorboard. He flopped. I didn't know what to do. Would it hurt him if I touched him? I had no idea.
He flopped again. I saw a small piece of paper in the passenger's seat and gently slipped it underneath him. I put him back in the tank. There was barely enough water for him to sit in until we got home. He couldn't swim anywhere.
When I got home, I transferred him over to a bowl. I examined his tank and there was a small crack in the very top of it, but it was above the water line. So I cleaned out his tank and put fresh water in it. I dropped a food pellet into the bowl and he ate it, so I figured that was a good sign.
I was very worried all night. Still am. Pablo acted scared of me. He was staying away from me. Usually when I come near his tank, he swims over to me. But last night, he was swimming away. He was also resting a lot, being very still mostly just lying at the bottom of his tank.
This morning when I got out of the shower, he was darting around a bit like he usually does. I fed him three pellets and he ate them. Then I came home at lunch to check on him. He was swimming around a bit. I think fish have short memories. I hope.
He's still sleeping a lot this afternoon. Maybe he's resting from all the excitement. Or maybe he didn't get any rest being in a new atmosphere over the weekend. Or maybe he's injured. I don't know.
I don't know what I would do if something happened. He livens up this otherwise lonely place. Seeing my little friend lying on the floorboard flopping around yesterday was about the saddest sight I can think of.
Please let him be OK.
I have every faith that Pable will be fine... I think its a really good sign that he eating.
Sampson and I will send good thoughts his way.
A bad parent is somebody who neglects, intentionally harms, or puts in harm way. You did none of those things
Pablo is a fish. Give him time to readjust. He might have had a truly great time at your mom's and needs readjusting time.
And he has a short memory.
Can't believe that I'm writing about this about a fish--though you have written so loivingly about Pable, and the picture shows how adorable he is
Ok- for real- when my beautiful, precious, golden haired, blue-eyed, bundle of love and kisses was 10 months old- and scooting everywhere- I proped him up on the bed- 10 feet from me- so I could get ready and keep an eye on hime. We had done this many times before. I put pillows all around him- as if this could stop super baby- but I did it nonetheless.
He was never out of my sight- until he went head first over the edge of the bed! "AAAGGGGHHHHH! I screamed! He landed on the soft comforter- which was on top of the carpet with ample padding- he was fine, but I felt like the worst Mom EVER! I journaled about it in his baby book/journal! I cried...more than he did. I couldn't believe what a moron I was.
Oh- I can laugh about it now. I love him- no real harm has ever come to that child- not under my care.
I hope Pablo will recover completely...and you too. Fish have really tiny brains- the matter is forgotten I am sure :)
The poor guy is probably a iittle shocked, but still excited to be back in familiar waters again.
Don't worry, you are and will be a great father.
And fish have only 3 second memories so he's long forgotten about it by now.
Thanks for the good thoughts.
Xinh: I'm sure you're right.
Pia: "Pablo is a fish."
You really think I need to be reminded often of this fact, don't you? :)
Buckeyefan: I will for sure take even more precautions if and when I transport the little guy again. I was driving very slow. I don't know how it happened.
Cora: Thanks for sharing :-)
I hope he's already forgotten about it.
Naj: Thanks. I definitely did last night. He appears to be getting more and more back to normal.
Krista: Yes, he's a Betta. You picked yours up all the time?! lol I was always afraid that would hurt them.
Transporting stuff in the car is tough. I usually use my car's seats to smush stuff so it stands straight up and won't move...ie dog crate, computer, rabbit carrier, etc. My passenger's seat gets moved all the time and I can reach the control from the back seat.
And you're not a bad parent. Transporting fish is very hard.
And I don't know if it makes you feel any better, but you weren't the only guy that commented on that post. :)
When Carlotta was 8 days old, I was in the mall with my family who had come to visit. I was horrified to learn as I peeked in at her that she had spit up and rolled in it. I hadn't seen it. I definitely had the "biffing it as a parent" thoughts.
The Pabloinator will be fine, but I recommend getting a weekend feeder so he can stay home next time.
Carmen: It was stressful. I had no idea how long I had to get him back in the water.
Ms. Sizzle: Thanks for the good thoughts. He seemed to be doing even better this morning.
Dorothy: I should have just had someone stop by and feed him. I don't think I'll be taking him for any more rides, unless absolutely necessary.
Lass: Dean and Jerry? I love it! :)
And just for you...more bunny pictures.
Hugs to you and Pablo.
hugs,
circe
Linda: Thanks. I hope my boy lives a long time.
Circe: Thanks, dear. Although we may have to keep your cat away from my fish ;-)